5 misunderstandings about bisexuality

In America, October is the month for homosexual history, and Oct. 11^th is the day for national coming out. For celebrating the two scenes, Buzzfeed Yellow interviewed several bisexual people, in order to abolish people’s misunderstandings and groundless. These groundless are wrong and unsubstantiated, what’s more, they are extremely harmful. However, to break these misunderstandings could help to decrease the harm of groundless and stop spread them, it’s favorable from the long term.

In the interview, these bisexual people talk about their orientation from several different points – serious, humorous, optimistic, or all of them. The topic of their talks are made as “I'm bisexual, but I’m not… or I don't…”

The first misunderstanding and also the most common one: “I'm bisexual, but I’m not confused.” It's hard for us to argue for this misunderstanding, because there is a hypothesis hiding in it that everyone need to choose a sexuality, but bisexual people are in a waiting stage before make sure their sexuality. But in fact, bisexual people aren't confused inside their mind, and there is no special way to force bisexual people to prefer a stable sexuality.

Below are the 5 misunderstandings about bisexual:

1 Bisexuality is a kind of experiment

People consider that, bisexual people just an experiment to dig out their sexuality, but they don't recognize their understandings about themselves, or trying to know themselves.

2 Bisexuality is a kind of greed

What's the feeling of being greedy for love and sex? Everyone is going through it, right? If it is so popular among people, why should people call bisexual people greedy?

3 Bisexual people are more likely to have an affair

Bisexuality doesn't mean they are more likely to have an affair and aspire after others. The meaning of monogamy is different from couples to couples, but not discriminate from orientation.

4 All bisexual people like promiscuity

Bisexuality doesn't mean they have strong sexual desire at any time or any place. As the same, bisexuality shouldn't be understood as threesome. Some bisexual people may like it, but others may doesn't. It's not a good idea to treat all bisexual people as the same.

5 Bisexual people don't have faith

Bisexual people do have faith. There are still plenty of things which couldn't be decided by orientation.

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