Sexual dreams may mean unharmonious sexual relationship

When you have sexual dreams, what you should do isn’t blaming yourself, but to face up to them. On one hand, you should face them relaxed, and not to carry heavy mental load on yourself; on the other hand, you should take good care on sexual dreams, and try your best to seek for the deep potential questions. Take a 40-year-old lady for an example, she has dreamed of having sex with her ex-lover for several times, she was so happy in the dreams, but shamed when she woke up. The contradict situation lasts for more than a month, she couldn’t keep up with it, and finally she ask the therapist for help. After a piece of talk with her therapist, she finally found that, the reason for her sexual dreams with her ex-lover was her sexual life with her husband isn’t harmonious. Her therapist said that, “Her sexual life now couldn’t satisfy herself, but she doesn’t want to tell her husband. She had good sexual relationship with her ex-lover, but she thought it not moral if thinking about having sex with him, so it came out in dreams.”

There are not always human in sexual dreams, things like snakes, worms, chopsticks, and so on, which look like males’ genitals, are also in those dreams. But if those things come into sexual dreams, it means the dreamers stiffly more than the normal ones.

If you keep hiding your sexual desire and needs, you might be perverted, like voyeurism, autotomy or hurt other people, what’s more, it may influence to sexual relationship. Saying it out is better than hiding it inside your heart.

If you are effected by sexual dreams, and if you feel shamed about it, what you should do is to find a therapist, you may have unharmonious sexual life. If you want to share your experience of sexual dreams, you could join our bisexual family – bisexual free dating, a family built for all bisexual friends, where you could show out your secrets without any worries. Join in our family and enjoy yourselves.