Why do most of the men hide their bisexuality?

A new study has examined why many bisexual men choose to stay in the closet – and in particular why many hide their sexuality from their wives and girlfriends.

In-depth interviews were conducted with a large, ethnically diverse sample of men who had never disclosed their same-sex behaviour to female sexual partners.

Stats data has previously shown that men were half as likely as women to identify themselves as bisexual.

Many of the men who participated said they wanted to avoid the stigma and homophobia they felt certain would lead to strong negative emotional reactions and profound changes in their relationships.

Eric W Schrimshaw, associate professor of Sociomedical Sciences at Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health, said: “Our results clearly identify the need for public education campaigns to dispel myths about bisexual men – that bisexual men are not gay, do not have HIV, and are not necessarily non-monogamous.

“The anticipated negative reactions from female partners suggest the need for strategies to assist behaviourally bisexual men disclose their sexual history in ways that minimise negative reactions and work with the couple to preserve the relationship”, he said.

The report found the men did not report a heterosexual identity, identity uncertainty, or other identity issues as reasons for non-disclosure. This was instead linked to wanting to avoid anticipated responses such as “ridicule, rejection, and victimisation”.