Be Careful of Your Safety When You Coming-out

Many of us keep our fears and self-doubts private while we are questioning. Once we accept our sexual orientation, we may have other reasons for keeping the information private. This period of secrecy is called living “in-the-closet”.
There is nothing wrong with keeping your sexual orientation private. We all need some time to get used to the idea ourselves; just remember, if you are struggling emotionally, you don’t have to go through it alone. Consider sharing the news with someone you trust. If you tell a friend, be aware that you might not (truly) know their attitudes towards bisexuality. It may be best to test their reaction before telling them outright. Mention that you have a family member that might be gay or bi, or comment on something you read related to “LGBT-rights” then watch their reaction. Some people must rely on the safety of the closet.
Not all school or work environments are safe. If you feel it is important to remain “closeted”, tell yourself it is temporary; a means of survival. The closet may be safe, but it is not healthy. It will deprive you of your right to live freely and it will impose undue stress, possibly eroding your self-esteem. If you must stay there for now, begin thinking of when it might be safe to “come-out”.